Investing in Friendship Circles

Most of us spend years obsessing over investing, allocations, withdrawal rates, and our retirement timing — but we also need to think of relationships as their own line item in the retirement plan ledger. Throughout life, school, work and parenting quietly hand you a social life for free — you hang out with buddies after school, go to lunch with work colleagues, and catch your … Continue reading Investing in Friendship Circles

“Completeness”

I just got back from a long weekend, driving 888 miles around the state of MN in my Jeep.  I was continuing my quest to reach all 68 of the state’s parks – I’m now up to 55.  Along the way, I also stopped at a variety of roadside oddities, historical places, and interesting sights.  It’s the 7th trip I’ve taken like this since I … Continue reading “Completeness”

Dementia Risk & Prevention

How’s your memory? A few people I’m close with are dealing with early-onset dementia and late-onset dementia. A woman in her 60s, a guy who is almost 70, and my Mom who is in her late 80s. It’s a really difficult thing to see. People that were completely independent a few years ago who are now unable to function on the most everyday of things. … Continue reading Dementia Risk & Prevention

Cyber Advice at Sixty

I’m having a milestone birthday this month – 60 years old.  Turning 60 – after enjoying a full decade of early retirement – feels like a bigger milestone than other birthdays.  After all, 60 is the age that many people retire, including my Father and Father-In-Law.  It feels like the “early” part of our retirement is now over, but I still have a lot of … Continue reading Cyber Advice at Sixty

Hero or Villain?

As Batman learned in the Dark Knight, “You either die the Hero, or you live long enough to become the Villain.”  I think that famous movie line now has some relevance to those of us who played by the rules, worked smart, saved prodigiously, and invested effectively.  At first, one’s journey to FIRE (Financial Independence & Retired Early) is hailed by society as successful & … Continue reading Hero or Villain?

Locking Out The Scammers

This weekend, I met with my brothers (and wives) to talk about my Mom’s finances.  We meet occasional over Zoom to discuss any pressing matters and I was getting a bit concerned about her exposure to scammers. So many people I’ve talked to have stories about their parent getting scammed over the phone or computer.  My Mom has gotten some of these calls herself.  They … Continue reading Locking Out The Scammers

Retirement Confidence

Northwestern Mutual does a nice annual study on the ‘state of retirement’ in the USA.  It’s a pretty exhaustive analysis that looks at all aspects of life and our involvement and satisfaction with each dimension. Link: Northwestern Mutual 2025 ‘Planning & Progress’ Study I was surprised by a few of the numbers from this year’s study and thought I’d share them.  First, Americans are pretty … Continue reading Retirement Confidence